If it's not making you better, it isn't love. True love makes you more of who you are, not less. - Mandy Hale (If thats the case i think i must only be capable of 'loving' myself. I always lose who i am in the place of girlfriend or lover.
Our days are happier when we give people a bit of our heart rather than a piece of our mind kindness quote. (I need to remember this so hard. I had a really bad day yesterday and did a lot of mind giving)