This needs to be my motto....seriously, because I'm like thiiiiiiiissss close to just throwing in the towel and giving up for good on anything working out as I'd hope for things to go well/any better like I think they should.
Victims think defeated, Victors see a way out, Proverbs 23:7 says, For as he thinks in his heart, so is he!! Claiming victory, never a victim!! Grateful for God's word!!