unfortunately this is true. but then it isn't a true test of friendship if you wave goodbye so easily. yet if you are unable to challenge yourself by lifting a finger, then do your friend a favor and be honest about it.
"The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back." // (I don't want to label what "the true mark of maturity" is, but this idea of empathy vs revenge is important to me.
According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with 4 arms, 4 legs and a head with 2 faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves.