Dear Self, if you keep going backwards with the same people that God has intentionally removed from your Life, you will continue to stay stuck. There is no joy in being confused and unhappy. Get rid of bad habits and leave them where they belong. What is meant for you will be yours, learn to Let Go. Dysfunction isn't Love ... Sincerely, Self
Try not to confuse "attachment" with "love." Attachment is about fear and dependency, and has more to do with love of self than love of another. Love without attachment is the purest form of love because it isn't about what others can give you because you're empty.