"Sometimes what you never wanted or expected turns out to be what you need" - that's how my chronic illness has been. Helped me change my life, find my truth & become a better person. Lead me to work I am passionate about even if I can't do much work yet.
Toxic people will hurt you and then try to make you feel bad that you are mad or hurt or upset. It's known as blame shifting. Instead of taking accountability for their own actions, they blame you for "having feelings." Abusive people do this