Letting go of others that you may find yourself...last word...read and see and explore on. until you reach your goal...wholeness in the midst of pain and anxiety. both are real do not discount one for the sake of the other. society is whole without you. your desire is to be whole within it. don't withdraw and please don't ove3r praise. it's not fair to you nor them. respect and acknowledgement is in there. Get over it...Jennifer.