I lovelovelove my husband because he encourages my independence but also shows his unconditional love and support. He will help me when I ask, but he will also let me do it on my own. It's all up to me, I just say the word. I wish every girl could be so lucky. Don't settle for less, ladies! Just don't. You are worth more and good guys do exist. :) I know I married the BEST!