I could not agree more. I had one person point out everything I did wrong. and it turns out there was a lot of misunderstandings, one that stands out was what I said about the husband, I NEVER said anything "bad" that he was not aware of. we make fun of each other, but NEVER disrespectful. It was a HUGE misunderstanding, to say the least, that ended the friendship. I have girlfriends who do the same. -l.s.