This quote by Marilyn Monroe sums me up completely. Do you think, retrospectively, if you had been cognizant of these emotional and life issues with me, that you would have loved me? I know this also describes you, and I loved you in spite of these because as you became vulnerable to me, you opened your soul bare as you exposed your inner being so I could see you. That is why I will always love you. I love your inner being. Ineffectiveness is just an added bonus.