Lucille Shackleton 🏳️🌈 on Instagram: "There’s a lot of available research on parenting styles these days and most of it is new. Many of our parents didn’t know how to respond to our emotions because they never learned or had their own emotions responded to but regardless, having your emotions regularly dismissed, denied or punished leads to us disconnecting from them and often feeling shame or guilt for having them in the first place. This leads us to perform and to conform, but prevents us f