Sometimes you allow the closet person to you, into the deepest part of your life and they turn around and slap you with it. I have to remember that they are not happy inside or outside. Its clear to see the sasness.
We didn't get this far in two and half years by sitting on our asses. We have worked HARD to build this and we are far from done. When you're worried about money when you retire we'll be heading south every winter.