Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can apologize when you should and let go of what you can't change. Need to remember the grudges and letting go part more often. Hard for me to forget.
The only people who are mad at you for speaking the truth are those people who are living a lie. Keep speaking the truth. Some people believe their own truth, just because they can't handle a person with a borderline personality.