check out this fashion blog. It is one of my favorites. so much inspiration http://christiescloset.tumblr.com/tagged/ootd
It can be called the economy of love: the scarcest the availability of certain resource, the highest the interest. And in this equation self-dignity plays a defining role.
All girls are better players, it's something to do with the hair i guess (i said players, not cheaters, men win that one).