Ah yes, as opposed to just a wonderfully intelligent woman. Ever hear anyone refer to a man as dangerous for being well-read? However I believe it is that the well-read men with abusive tendencies that make the most dangerous abusers of all.
You are allowed to terminate toxic relationships. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You are allowed to be angry and selfish and unforgiving. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for taking care of yourself.
Sky above me, earth below me, fire within me - who has the fire within? We all have the sky above us and the earth below us, but we differ by the fire within us. What lights your fire? How big is your flame?