Don't Turn an Excuse into an Identity. We need be careful of how we label ourselves,saying "I'm a fearful person", "I'm a weak person",etc... because once the label becomes a part of you, it starts to control you. You're not broken. You don't need to be fixed. You don't need a label. All you need to do is say, "I have to decide how I want to be now going forward." ~ A.R.