Before tying up your partner/sub/bottom, be sure you’ve done your research on safety and bondage. Communicate with your partner and ask how their limbs are feeling. If they’re going numb then you’re cutting off circulation. You should be able to fit a finger between the rope and the skin. If you can’t then it’s too tight.ties like the dragonfly sleeve, do not yank at the arms and pull them back. Be gentle and do it gradually so you don’t strain the arms or the joints.