Two questions: 1. How many licks does it take to get to the center of the Tootsie Pop? (I suspect I've asked this here before. It's one of my favorite quandaries, right up there with where do matching socks go when they disappear) 2. Why is it, despite seeing and being inspired by something, it doesn't instantly dawn on me how I can re-create it in my own life? For example, consider this wonderful display: A treasure trove of beautifully crafted potholders artfully arranged on a wall. I…