It is not feminism if we oppress one side: think before you comment, and remember real feminism wants equality<<<<<last time I checked feminism was the equality of women. It's fine if you believe in equality too but just clarifying.
Lesbians can be incredible people, very kind and loving. And I love them, and all their choices. This is an absolutely beautiful piece written by a lesbian, and I completely agree with everything it says about being friend zoned and girlfriendzoned.
The 'ending' gender roles I don't like, because most kids and adults fit well in their gender roles and we can mske room for the outliers. But if you wont be happy untill gender roles are ended you will never be happy.