books-worth-reading (and no, I do not consider that Nicholas Sparksish book that is laced with soft porn a good read. I refer to Anais Nin or Anne Rice if I need to go there. Or Penthouse forum if Im feeling especially naughty.
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No, to Take Control of Your Life
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all.