I think every woman needs to learn to not need anyone and to always always be able to hold herself up alone. Nothing wrong with love of being with a man, just learn to keep your independence! Needing and wanting a man in your life is different.
Essential ASL Sign Language - for SASL (South African SL) please ignore the signs for "good-bye", "thank you" and "later", the other signs are the same. Also the ASL sign for "please" is the SASL sign for "pleasure"