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Sadly, some people use this perfectly helpful phrase as a way to say, "your pain is nothing to my pain." And that's ok to point out in a conversation. Just because someone is a victim in a way you aren't doesn't mean they get to claim they are a more valuable human being than you. But nor do you get to ignore their pain because they are being unreasonable in the way they express it.
I've never been really close to either of my parents. Just codependent on my mom, but definitely not close. My dad is like nothing to me. No one understands. You are a terrible daughter if you don't honor and appreciate your parents. I think there's a lot more to parenting than providing food, shelter, and money. Especially when you put them in a chronically negative or empty environment, but I'm exaggerating and not allowed to say that.